I'm not gonna lie, the note stirred up a lot of feelings for me. Him signing love before his name seems significant to me. In the few notes he has written since bomb, he has not done this. (Where signing love was the only way he would sign things to me pre-bomb)
Its those curve balls - they getcha every time.
I hear you on the signing "love". That's how H signs his emails to his "just friend" ow.
I get just his name.
I agree with URworthy and Snodderly. The MLCer seems to sense "change" in the partner, and doesn't seem to like it. So, in an effort to keep the LBS the "same" the MLCer might revert to "prebomb" behaviors at least temporarily.
Hold fast TVS. View the note as an anomaly. Even if he is "starting to wake up" I think he could "fall back to sleep" in a flash.
~sending you good thoughts~
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
