Hmm ok. I guess I need to work out which forum is going to be most beneficial for me and my sitch. I don't think I really have a good grasp on DB, I understand what to do, just struggling applying it and customising to my M and R issues.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.