Something else I should have added to the list. Before BD and for last 2 years W has been obsessed with social networking, a particular site with little blue bird, has quite a following, this is what has led to meeting OM. my guess is W was pursued after they became close friends. I think the online world has causd issues of feeling unfulfilled and needing to get a new life. I guess everybody has a better life online - you don't get to see warts n all!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.