I would see if you can challenge the MC's position. This whole situation isn't fair. Virtually any MC will tell you that when one person comes open to work and the other comes closed off to change MC simply doesn't work. Ask MC if you can email him some background and your goals for MC. That way he's not consulting or advising. If he refuses that request I might want to find a different MC. You are the paying customer, you have to get what you want. My MC claimed to be pro marriage too, but he really wasn't that pro marriage at all.


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015