TV, Your h was feeling a bit of a "pinch" when he got up and saw that you hadn't left him a note or anything. He senses you are pulling away and going on w/your life. As urworthy has stated, they want to know that we will be right where they left us when they return to earth. Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way.
He may have had a moment of clarity and opted to leave you a note, but I do think it's more of a letting mom know what I'm doing type of thing. Some of them do tend to get chatty when they are "allowed" to do things that aren't part of their normal day-to-day life. I will offer this suggestion, when he returns home, don't ask about the trip. The less you ask about it, the more he may open up.
TV, Enjoy your weekend w/your children and allow God to work on him. Your h has got a ways to go.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
