Reba, thanks so much for the support...I think I needed that...as for S's trip and me, I am getting a mini 'see how it is this weekend' H took S for two nights to a hotel to 'see' how S does not around me prior to the trip.

I think flat acceptance is all I can do at this time. To be honest, and that is far from where I thought I would be on the topic.

As far as where you are with your H, and the bridge...I think I am there now...H has pretty much made it known that I need to use any money I have on the extras and he will cover the bills.

I need to look at the account today to see what he had in mind...I am still wondering if it all spurred from my check not going through for three weeks making H question where my money was...but this is mindreading...


ME:33 H:34
S: 18 months

BD/H left 2/10/2013
14 years together
9 married