Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

So we talked a little more about our relationship. She still says that I there was nothing I did/didn't do to cause this. But now she is saying that the "second thoughts" she had before the wedding have come back off and on thought our marriage and she thinks we got married too early. She also said that she was no longer happy in the marriage and the reason she hadn't talked to me about it months ago is because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I've always told her that she can talk to me about anything. I just wish she had come talked to me before there was another man to deal with. She still says she would be willing to try counseling but also says she doesn't know what she wants in her life anymore. She still texts OM all the time.

I just don't know what the next move I should make is. I would greatly appreciate any advice.