Recently Separated and Need Help

[azguy]

Being without my W or S in the house when she first moved out was a very unusual and lonely feeling. I wish you strength to get through it. You can try to GAL or not, as suits your mood this weekend, but have some patience with yourself as you deal with it. Anxiety is all part of it. Think of it as a reminder you're still alive and struggling to find the path forward.

I'd just ignore worries about what he is spending money on, or his plans with the kids. That's his life. If the support is court ordered, and is causing you troubles, there should be someone you can notify so that you can lay that worry aside as well.

This may be hard to believe, but you are at a good point to work on what kind of person you want to be. Try to focus on Breakdown's list, or whatever list of things you feel you can improve on. It's a great way to bolster your confidence and attitude.