She probably did mean it in a good way, but I'm with you on this one. I could never be thin enough for my ex, even when I was 5'6" 125 lbs. I'm a curvy girl even when I was underweight (that was really too thin for me) and I'll always have chubby thighs at any weight.
One of the nicest things about dating after my divorce, has been the fact that NONE of the guys I have slept with since, have had ANYTHING but lovely things to say about my figure. Most embraced the things my ex thought were flaws.
So - don't jump to conclusions, but if you pick up any more vibes like that - move on.
