Then he brought up the issue of his "GF" not wanting him to have any contact w me. I said I would never let anyone control me that way but if he wanted to live his life that way, that was his problem. He said he didn't want to live that way, so he had to make a decision. I said okay, that I wasn't his mom to tell him what to do. This experience will be really good for his growth, I hope.
I love how you responded to this. Well done, I'm taking notes.
Originally Posted By: Tori
So I signed the papers. If he signs tomorrow, I will have to switch to calling him my XH. I can't wait for this to be over.
I know you are looking forward to a new and exciting life filled with love, but that you also will be mourning the loss of what you and H once had. I hope you have plenty of tissue on hand. I'll be thinking of you. (Hugs)
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
