That's where I'm really running the risk, I've never met mc! He was referred by someone I know who's sister went to him, she wanted m & he didn't. They worked it out & said mc was wonderful. I talked to mc on the phone and tried to get my questions answered - is he pro-marriage, didn't get super clear answer but he promoted marriage he said. He said he was familiar and used solution based therapy. And he's male, which I think will appeal to H.
The best thing I actually think I liked about this mc was the fact that I tried to make appt with him alone and he wouldn't see me. He asked if I wanted him to be my relationship therapist, or personally therapist. Mc stated he wouldn't see me personally as it would be unfair and undermine trust for relationship therepy. I respect that.
But now I'm walking in blind. I like option of waiting for H to open up too but I think I know him well enough to know it'd be a very silent session. H does not want to go there, would rather just leave me be and 'move on'.
I can lead with that option, but need to have my plan B.
