bustin,

"Damned if you do, damned if you don't." I agree w SIAS to do what feels right to you & don't try to figure out what HE thinks you should/shouldn't be saying or asking.

Good for you being "ready for the next stage!"

And, I like that you are being pro-active about providing support for yourself and your kids when H leaves. That was very smart thinking!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.