Met with the L today-most stressful meeting of my life. I was drenched in sweat afterwards. He was arguing w me about the agreement and said he would refuse to sign it bc it was against his counsel. After an hour, he agreed to do it only if I signed a release so he would not be subject to lawsuits from my part.
I emailed my H and told him I needed reassurance he was going to do his part. He called and we talked about it. Then he brought up the issue of his "GF" not wanting him to have any contact w me. I said I would never let anyone control me that way but if he wanted to live his life that way, that was his problem. He said he didn't want to live that way, so he had to make a decision. I said okay, that I wasn't his mom to tell him what to do. This experience will be really good for his growth, I hope.
So I signed the papers. If he signs tomorrow, I will have to switch to calling him my XH. I can't wait for this to be over.
