Tallula, maybe you standing up for yourself, not going to his pity-parties, and removing yourself from his behaviours... are EXACTLY What he needs to WAKE UP! For the sake of the kids, yourself & your M... I sure hope so! ((HUGS))
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)