Sit back and think about it. Don't do anything while you are still emotional. Sure it sounds like a mean thing to do and on FB.? Gets to me that people use it as a way to communicate when they should be doing it verbally as you say. Cowardly. I had similar, I trusted my daughter to handle it. It was good for her. It is her R afterall. She did well. She is an adult after all. We talked about it but I didn't act on her behalf. As far as your H..just wait to see how it pans out. It's not his fault either. He may want to know when these things happen but take the emotion out of it first.
