On a different note, I was hoping to get some advice about creating a separation contract with W. In PA as far as I understand it there is no "legal separation". But you can create a contract spelling out custody/financials etc. I in no way want to ignite anger toward W filing for D. But I am concerned about her spending etc. Money is tight for us. But especially since BD she has been spending a lot. Just want some advice as far as protecting myself without inciting anything. I am concerned about my financial state if she chooses to leave me and creates more of a financial mess along the way.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
