More detached. I still care, but not more than my POM. These are the consequences of his actions.

He is just sooo angry, so it does worry me to think he'll get into a physical fight with someone in front of my kids. But, nothing I can do about it. I want to believe he would be responsible, but clearly everything I thought about this man has changed. His dad had fought with people infront of him. It's sad. The man he has hated since he was little...he is becoming. I do fear he will kill himself. But, not so much that I will enable anything or try to soften his consequences. That would be tragic, but not my fault. I spent years getting over my uncles suicide & feeling it was my fault. Today I know in my soul I am not responsible for the choices of others.

It's just so sad.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D