MWD says in her DR book that if the S refuses to end the A, and you've done all you know to do, to get a lawyer and proceed from there. However, she also says that most A's do not last much longer than six months. It really is up to you as how much and how long you want to continue.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
