O don't get my H either, but I do facilitate the behaviour by being friends like this. I am also glad there were not any kinds of physical activity whatsoever lol! Moving into a solid friendship while he figures his life out is the best bet for all.
I don't know what he wants, I don't think he really knows either. But that's cool. Because I know what I want, and that is all that matters. I want to move ahead, finish degree and work in a field that I love! I want to depend on me, not H.
It would be much easier if H was a$$hole lmao! He is frustrating for sure, but not a jerk (well, no more than any of us are, sometimes)
