Thanks 2.4. It just makes us think why they care when their actions are completely opposite. Feels like I'm drowning, I'm sure all of ya'll can relate.
Oh yes, drowning sometimes, floating on my back with the sun on face at others times. Its hard work.
I think they do care, but put on such a poker face because this is what they think they need to do to be truly happy. And the only way to get to where they want to, is to push all the emotion and feelings they have for us away and learn to hate us instead, when they hate us their actions are justified. The problem is when something like you describe happens, the feelings and emotions they are hiding deep down come to the surface. I guess the question is, if they have these feelings and emotions, why do they feel they need to get away from us. Something I still struggle with every day, even though I know 50% of the reason is my actions through our M.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
