Is it possible that many of you think I am hyper-focused because I have so much communication with my h? (way more than most on this board). I have been reading other threads where the h is still living with the w, and they post similar stuff like I do.
I truly feel part of my change, 180, detachment is to not be on egg-shells & stand up for myself. So, when I post about my communication with h, its NOT because its about him, but about MY interraction and trying to 180. I am posting for support on my 180.
Positives: -several baby steps that I can be happy about -still excercizing daily -able to eat, sleeping better -awesome things happening for my D, that I am able to enjoy -selling product (YAY!!) -large gov't cheque arrived today -lots of communication (h is not afraid to call/be with me)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
