I could've worded it better. I think it comes down to your own state of mind.
A positive confirmation will, presumably, lead to debate and hassle.
No test will, I assume, lead to less debate and less hassle....for now.
I wish I could offer more than that. Something more inciteful. I feel for you, it's such a difficult situation, and I just hope that his response is more gracious than before.
Me: 42 W: 40 M: 18 T: 20 D13 D10 S7 BD: 8/2012 Still living together