I could've worded it better. I think it comes down to your own state of mind.

A positive confirmation will, presumably, lead to debate and hassle.

No test will, I assume, lead to less debate and less hassle....for now.


I wish I could offer more than that. Something more inciteful. I feel for you, it's such a difficult situation, and I just hope that his response is more gracious than before.


Me: 42 W: 40
M: 18 T: 20
D13 D10 S7
BD: 8/2012
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