My wife is playing house with the other guy......she actually thought I'd like to hear about the concert they went to on sat or the duck they cooked Sunday night.........
I think I'm going to scream!
I felt my Bp go way up so I got up said good night and left
She asked me if I was going to start looking for new jobs since I got my cert. I told her nothing in the area and I wasn't going to leave d3- sh said " oh I assumed you were going to take her with you....you have a special bond"......WT_?
I'm pissed, shocked, dissapointed, and dissapointed
I have ZERO idea what to do next-I'm just getting carpet bombed
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
#1 I may live in fantasyland but I still think she will snap out of it #2 We put house in her name to avoid paying PMI #3 My wife is a atty #4 I dont want to be the one who files #5 I am trying not to "lawyer up" I want to be in a solid financial situation for my D and I if my wife files #6 House is already on the market #7 W is out of the house 3-4 nights of the week staying with her "friend"
I am working on myself and having an awesome time with my daughter in the meantime.
Last night W came home with groceries and made us a wonderful dinner. Then she comes into the room where I was reading the newspaper and sits down after putting D to sleep and we start talking (she usually goes to the other room)then she starts talking about what she did with the OM- thats when I said goodnight.
Thats why im so ___________confused. We have been together 18 years.We just had a wonderful family trip together just over a month ago. If you dont want to be with me and youre so sure......leave
But im (stupidly) busting my a$$ hoping that my D will grow up with a mommy and daddy who love each other
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Oh man, I would flip my [censored]. That is exactly when my STBX proposed early on that she move back in as "roommates only" until we got our finances in order, I said I didn't think that would be a good idea. That was before I read DB/DR, but I still think I made the right choice for me.
Positivespin: Do you think it's a MLC? Can you add your deets to your sig so we don't constantly have to refer to your first post to refresh our memories?
Just remember, exercising releases sweet, soothing endorphins. Keep walking that stress away, buddy!
I am working on myself and having an awesome time with my daughter in the meantime.
This is great!
Originally Posted By: Positivespin
Last night W came home with groceries and made us a wonderful dinner. Then she comes into the room where I was reading the newspaper and sits down after putting D to sleep and we start talking (she usually goes to the other room)then she starts talking about what she did with the OM- thats when I said goodnight.
Sounds like she is trying to get you to react. Nice job on the goodnight!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Well I went to IC and came home to my nightly nick to my heart.......
Tonight she decided to reveal the identity of this new other man and proceed to tell me that she wants to introduce d to this other man
OH HELL NO!
She is nuts, insane....she has been with this guy for a month- he is a famous international musician and college prof-she thinks that should be enough for me to allow her to meet him. He is really nice she said.....
I am so proud of myself ,I responded I do not want my daughter confused and I don't want her knowing about your boyfriend because we are still married. She actually said that she wants d to help her plant a garden at this guys house -it's been a month
My god,
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
I am having a drink for you! Go outside and scream, throw some big rocks... I admire your control. Thinking about you! Hang in there!!!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
