Mr. Bond - THANK YOU smile

Im still in love with her frown

#1 I may live in fantasyland but I still think she will snap out of it
#2 We put house in her name to avoid paying PMI
#3 My wife is a atty
#4 I dont want to be the one who files
#5 I am trying not to "lawyer up" I want to be in a solid financial situation for my D and I if my wife files
#6 House is already on the market
#7 W is out of the house 3-4 nights of the week staying with her "friend"

I am working on myself and having an awesome time with my daughter in the meantime.

Last night W came home with groceries and made us a wonderful dinner. Then she comes into the room where I was reading the newspaper and sits down after putting D to sleep and we start talking (she usually goes to the other room)then she starts talking about what she did with the OM- thats when I said goodnight.

Thats why im so ___________confused. We have been together 18 years.We just had a wonderful family trip together just over a month ago. If you dont want to be with me and youre so sure......leave

But im (stupidly) busting my a$$ hoping that my D will grow up with a mommy and daddy who love each other


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13