#1 I may live in fantasyland but I still think she will snap out of it #2 We put house in her name to avoid paying PMI #3 My wife is a atty #4 I dont want to be the one who files #5 I am trying not to "lawyer up" I want to be in a solid financial situation for my D and I if my wife files #6 House is already on the market #7 W is out of the house 3-4 nights of the week staying with her "friend"
I am working on myself and having an awesome time with my daughter in the meantime.
Last night W came home with groceries and made us a wonderful dinner. Then she comes into the room where I was reading the newspaper and sits down after putting D to sleep and we start talking (she usually goes to the other room)then she starts talking about what she did with the OM- thats when I said goodnight.
Thats why im so ___________confused. We have been together 18 years.We just had a wonderful family trip together just over a month ago. If you dont want to be with me and youre so sure......leave
But im (stupidly) busting my a$$ hoping that my D will grow up with a mommy and daddy who love each other
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13