put yourself out of the misery or keep pushing on.

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FS

You certainly have the "right" to see your son off. I REALLY don't think its what is best for you.

We are both EXTREMELY sensitive when it comes to our children. You have already identified "handoffs" of your son are stress points for you. Your son will either be tense (or asleep) at the airport as its new surroundings - more then likely it will be you worrying and extremely stressed with a H who will be stressed at the trip ahead and a son in a new environment

I see NO good with you going to the airport.

Your H wanted to take S on a trip involving 3 trip segments a day??? Ive done that-It will be a good learning experience for him but he needs to be able to do it his way.

Please try to step back with this. However, you may ask him to call you when he arrives at his final destination.

Trust is hard after they drop a bomb