Wife actually apologized for the way she was today. It was nice to hear, but didn't really do anything about the underlying problem. She apologized for being bi!chy. She just told me that everything was irritating her today.
PF, it's tough and I feel for you. I think patience and avoid reacting too much to her. The apology is a very small, but good sign.
Have you read the Five Love Languages? My DB coach recommended doing this in parallel to DBing since we're living together. You're in a similar situation.
Originally Posted By: Pathfinder2
I watched a tv show with her and then left her on her own and went to bed. I still get the feeling she is just waiting for me to leave on my next trip. My plan for tomorrow is to disappear for the day. I've got to find something to apply myself to so I can get my mind off of this stuff. Probably work out and then maybe go to the coast.
Good keep up the GAL. Visit the local yacht club. When I owned a boat, I was always looking for people to go sailing. Hang out there and gradually make some friends.
