HI PON, yes I do know that his LL is acts of service. BUT, I see the 2 hot chocolates as just a nice guesture towards a business partner on an anniversary...its all he could do. If he meant it as a LL towards me, it would have been one cup.

When I try to do nice things, he usually rejects them... so would not do the hot chocolate/coffee guesture. But last week I gave him a bottle of wine. He appreciated that.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)