Advice

[Jeack]

Yeah we are in a definite similar situation. Only difference is no kids in my M. That's what prompted her to leave. When I said let's work on us before having kids. All she heard was no I don't want kids with you. We really have no contact at all. She seems happy in her lala land. This is the third time in the 5 yrs we've been together she's ran from our R. Can't figure out why I still want this to work.

I noticed on your one post that your not sure if you just want a W or her. Guess that's what I'm trying decide now as well.

But the stress definitely takes a toll on the body.