Jim, i feel for you man. Hang in there. I know exactly how you feel. I think our wives are probably a lot a like. Even same age and all. Actually you and I are same age as well. There is no question she has to want to fix herself. Nobody can do it for her. My W said yesterday that none of the choices she's making right now are logical. She admits that, but still doesn't seem to want to do anything to take the logical steps. She even surprised me yesterday when she said she's been off her SSRi's for 5 months now. Says she still takes Xanax to go to sleep, but that's it. Just keep workin on yourself
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
