I think it's game over. Because a lot of our marriage issues according IC MC and even my doctor are from her issues and enmesh meant with her mom. I just worry about her. She's a good person but definitely wacked in the head. And I have to realize I can't fix her. She needs to fix herself. I'm not saying I'm a angel but she def has issues that she does not want to deal with. And just ignore.

A friend described the OM as dating down. He's in same boat tons of debt no real career.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB