I feel like all of them apply in some fashion. I'm just not sure how to move forward fixing those issues on my own. Who will hold me accountable if I backslide? That's why I appreciate my IC.
On another note, my H asked me about my dying father today. It really threw me for a loop.
Me: 33 H:33 M: 11 yrs S: 3/8/13 H came home: 3/10/13 S for second time: 3/16/13