When I was meeting with my IC today, we discussed how I've been controlling in the M. But she also told me that just from meeting with me 3 times, that she feels I'm very demeaning. So she thinks that I need to work on my approach. That I need to think before I speak so that I can decide if what I want to say will come across the right way. Does anyone have any suggestions on a book or books I could read to help me along with this? The reason being is I can't see her again until 5/8. That feels like such a long time for me to keep myself on track without her help.
I think IC is great, but I think you should be working on your issues all the time, not just when you are with IC.
What about that list I posted?
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It sounds like you have a number of things you can start working on:
- anger - controlling - insecure - taking H for granted - anxiety/depression
I mentioned controlling, and I would venture that your "demeaning" behavior is tied to that.
So which of these do you think really apply? Why do you think you are like that?
