P4L... I think what Bond is trying to say is that, YOU can turn things around by focusing on YOU, if that what you really want. Like me, you tend to focus your energy on her/M. I"m stil learning. Its hard to understand. Its hard to do.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)