Good morning... I am posting another text exchange, for ME, to see if you all feel like I handled it better. I feel I made my point and stood up for myself:

H: return client appt. 930am tomorrow

M: Great! Did they say why?

H: Don't know

M: Are you asking me to go?
(This is where I normally stress and wonder if I am expected to go to this appt, as sometimes he says he will do it other times, he expects me there... recall, I ALWAYS ask if a client time is suitable for him, he doesn't offer the same respect to ask.)

H: Of course

M: It wasn't clear. Tty in the am then.

After that exchange, I felt detached.. I sensed his mood as we hadn't spoke since 3pm. I wasn't going to let this convo bring me down with him... I was already there on my own (anniv.)

New day today (raining), 9:30 appt.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)