Been on here a while now on newcomers. But think I need some clarity on sitch with W. I think she has traits of MLC but would like opinion.

Depression which was very bad up to BD
A sudden 'epiphany'
Pushing away those who will not agree with her thoughts
Taking more care in appearance
EA with OM - apparently in love even though never met
Scared of not living for much longer - need to change life quickly
Change of personality and likes - almost trying to have life of friends
Lack of concentration / care about current job
The need to get away from this terrible life with me, and willing to do what needs to be done to so this, even if it means living somewhere unsavoury
Thoughts that everything in our M and parents M is negative

So any thoughts? I know this is probably a mirror image of hundreds of posts on here but would be good to get comments on my own sitch.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.