Irreplaceable

[reachingHigher]

Hi Tvs,

I'm so sorry for the hurt you feel. I too, like urw, wish there was something I could do or say to help. But I can't

And even if it not true, it FEELS as though my ex-friend took something that was once very special to me - my H and my R with him - and took it away from me........I think why I really have a bug up my butt tonight is that the thought of them going away very much hurts me. I would always ask my H for us to go and do things as a couple, but he never seemed very interested. He seems plenty interested with her though.

Yeah, that would hurt plenty. I didn't have to face that so I can't imagine the pain and betrayal you feel. I'm so sorry.

H WAS interested in you at one time. He was interested in being the happy, handsome, well-dressed jock who caught the beautiful bride! And he wanted those precious boys so much.

But he is clouded with depression and can't think straight. OW is a drug, much like alcohol was the drug for my H -- so they can put off working on their issues.

In December and January when I felt so desperate I called a mutual guy family friend (didn't wanna tread on a treasured R in the family, but I felt I HAD to have some help); somehow this was reassuring to hear this person, this man, who knew us both so well, tell me I was the prize and how H was in such a fog.

Do you have anyone like that? Someone who knows how you've been treated and can buoy you up in this difficult time?

This man said, "rH, even if you had to wait three years for H to come out of the fog, wouldn't it be worth it? When he wakes up, you'll be there...". I thought, THREE YEARS!! That's SO long! But just hearing someone encourage me was worth so much.

Tvs, I can't tell you enough how I admire your courage. He's leaving TODAY? That's so long! How can her family do without her too? Her poor H also.

Well...post as much as needed this long weekend. I'm so glad you have the yoga outlet! Do you have plans for you and the boys?

Hugs and tears,
rH