Irreplaceable

[Takevowsserious]

Ladies, here is what I always say when I see some questionable fashion choices in old pictures... " It was in style at the time".

That's my story, and I'm sticking to it!!!

Gal I had to laugh when you posted "What would TVS do in this situation?" because I was thinking - give him the finger from another room? I guess there can be some dignity in that lol!

Feeling a bit down tonight (he leaves for his trip tomorrow, comes back Sunday). It doesn't bother me that he's not home- it bothers me that he's with her.

Who knows what his plans really are. I believe my H is a master at half truths. He may very well be going fishing - for part of the time. Maybe he convinces himself he's not really lying that way.

Went to yoga tonight, and it felt great to sweat and stretch. I was all smiles tonight here, and did not ask one stinking question about his trip.

Snodderly is right (of course, for you newbies here!) when she says that the less you ask them, the more they will tell you. He kept throwing out little details here and there about his trip. I just pleasantly listened. To be honest, I think it perturbs him a bit that I don't ask him questions. He can't figure it out.

UW, I know I try to make sense of things and I shouldn't. It is just so damn frustrating sometimes.

And even if it not true, it FEELS as though my ex-friend took something that was once very special to me - my H and my R with him - and took it away from me.

I could go on and on about her lifetime of messed up baggage that makes her a grade A candidate for MLC. So yes, it really is double crazy when it comes to the two of them.

I think why I really have a bug up my butt tonight is that the thought of them going away very much hurts me. I would always ask my H for us to go and do things as a couple, but he never seemed very interested. He seems plenty interested with her though.

I'll get myself out of my funk, just gonna plow through everything to get to the other side.

And the checking up on me? It's been going on quite awhile. Mr. Obvious isn't as slick as he thinks he is!

I think it bothers him when I talk to our mutual (well she used to be, she's not too happy with him now) friend. It seems like after I talk to her, he will bring up in conversation, "Have you talked to so and so lately?" So sly!

Just because I'm not out having an affair, it doesn't mean I'm right where he left me. Far from it. That does svck for him.

Even though I do hope he wakes up one day, I also feel sorry for him when he does. I can only imagine it would be like running into a brick wall. Ouch.

Better keep that crash helmet ready