Hi Mighty and Mileus, I am in the same situation. My H is with the ow right now, I feel certain. He is out of town for work and it is the city where OW lives. I also don't want to be a doormat, let him cake eat, But I am not ready to LRT yet either. It is so hard. We have been separated since sept. He came back home for 2 weeks in Feb. only to later tell me he was just going thru the motions. He told me he was still in an EA with OW. I have asked nothing further about ow although that is hard too.Trying to detach. Have been doing all the GAL and focusing on me and kids. Such unnecessary pain.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13