Typically in an OW situation, the WAH is gone and doesn't look back, and will be nothing but mean to you. They will feel terrible about what they're doing, so they'll make it all your fault to justify their actions and feel better about themselves.
Ouch, that hurt because that's what I am seeing a lot of right now!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.