T, Some hit bottom, seek help, look inward and do the work,and unfortunately, some never get out of the tar pit.
Sweetie, you keep trying to understand something that is foreign to those of us not in a MLC. It's like trying to nail jello to the freakin wall - aint gonna happen. The ow sounds like she is in one, too. That is a recipe for double crazy.
And him checking up on you? Yep. He still wants to make sure you are where he left you. He doesnt know all the internal stuff you've been working on. Suckkks for him. Oops, did I say that out loud? LOL! My bad.
