I hear you, Busting! I agree that they should be the ones to hide. This OW is pretty bad, though. She is aggressive, and when she was stalking my H in the parking lot and we tried to get in the car, she actually reached over me to hit my H. It was like an episode of Jerry Springer or whatever. So I don't ever want to see that woman anymore. The thought gives me stomach pain. That shows you who my H is associating with during the past 2-3 years. He's like a teen who's hanging out w the bad crowd to prove to his mom (me) that he's totally independent and can do whatever he wants.
I wish I could see a video of you dancing at the party :-)