How would you move forward? What would that look like, for jb? i mean forward, without your W and M.
I don't see that as too difficult a question. Early in my journey I started GAL'ing. However, the GAL'ing for me was really a process of reinventing myself in regards to what I wanted my life to look like without regards to my W and M. Frankly, some of things I've been doing would interest my W and some she could care less about. Doesn't matter. So really moving forward would mean continuing on this track of reinventing myself. If that leads to another relationship in the future it does, and if it doesn't, it doesn't.
I wished my W the same yesterday. 
