I read somewhere or someone told me, divorce should be intentional, not reactive.
Stop the phone stuff unless it's about the business of the family. You let him in when you said "Let me think about it."
Boundaries go both ways.
You are right. I KNEW better when I put that in there. Thanks, Labug!! You are my boundary lady. Should have simply answered, thank you & no.
I had been doing to good at not letting him in.
I will repeat the divorce needs to be intentional, not reactive.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
