I read somewhere or someone told me, divorce should be intentional, not reactive.

Stop the phone stuff unless it's about the business of the family. You let him in when you said "Let me think about it."

Boundaries go both ways.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss