That is sound advice. Thank you AS. I posted my text for exactly that reason. I am continually trying to be brutally honest with myself right now. Especially in my communication with W, since that is where our R derailed from. I took some time to put the text together but still felt like it wasn't conveying exactly what I wanted. I need and appreciate the advice toward a better use of my words to assist in my ongoing detachment.
Also feeling very much that I haven't showed her my independence and definitely feel as if I am being a backup plan for her. So I really am going to focus more on that. Would love more advice on setting boundaries with that goal in mind without comih off as vindictive or cold.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
