Thanks Reb. I have discussed in a very gentle way, and expressed that I would like to have been there. Didn't prompt and invite but at least now she knows I still have an interest in her family and being part of family events.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.