I don't wnat to fix things for her I realize this. What I do want to do though is maybe buy her a book because when I had some depression last year she had bought me a book and I am reading it now.It is a pretty good look at life. I was hoping that someone may know of a book that could help my wife find herself. The issues last time I was on this board (2years ago) were about me an my problems mostly. This time however the problems are are not 100% mine. She says she doesn't know the individual who is behind mom and wife and employee. She wants to feel less caged. She is ready for help but I don't know what to do with out seeming pushing. The only thing I thought was that I could do what she did for me and gave me a really good book. I can't give her the same book becuase well...becuae of the inscription in the front but also because the book is very genaric for depression and cynicism. I was looking a long the lines of maybe Dr. Phil or something like that. If anyone knows I would be greatful.Thank you.