Hello, Making a long story longer you can go to "I Need support "to get the full story but, in a nutshell.... My wife and broke upo 2years ago and after changes in me we reconciled and then recently we took a bad turn and she didn't know if she wanted to be married (WAW) and she was alomost out the door. We have since last week talked and laughed and made love several times and have had a great weekend. My problem amd the reason I am not off this board completly is that I need help and some suggestions peicing our M back together. We say we love eachother and I have started to listen better and still give her space while being supportive and confident but...it is hard to know what she needs help with and if there is anything that I can do to help her. Does anyone know a book that she might want to read (besides DR or DB) Iknow she needs help and she wants to make positive shanges in her life but if I could just help her a bit (not fix her problems just help her out) anyways I thouhg thatmayvbe somebody could give some advice about peicing things together? I love her and I just want to nort make the same mistakes and really learn this time. I can't keep coming bal to these boards every 2 years.Thank you.