I'm posting something I posted to you before...but maybe it needs re-reading... Take it in, SP....really. You were a critical partner. Even now when you talk about her, it's usually with contempt. You think her self esteem didn't take a battering after all those comments and remarks and fights? I really do...
I really do too. I know I was a critical partner. I know I didn't do things right. I know I need a lot more work... I am trying. I will still try, but time on this relationship is running out I feel. I refuse to take a huge financial hit, on top of my emotional hit, because I made a decision to be a more understanding and compasionate husband to a woman that left me anyway. As a business owner, you should agree that this would not be a smart move. I have MY FUTURE to worry about now. Wife is deciding to remove herself from that equation, so I am only going to look out for my own benefit, as well as my daughters.
The unfortunate situation is, W texted me the other day. We were going back and forth about how to split up our assets. Some of the things she said made sense to me, others didn't. That is regardless, the one point she made, and one that she hasn't waivered on once since BD, is that she isn't going to ever come back. There will be no second chance, no time to see how things progress among us, no nothing. She is DONE and moving forward with her life. She has even started dating to see what is out there. Her mother told me that she is encouraging W to date even more. She has already seen a few guys, but apparently nothing has sparked for her as of yet. The point being, she IS MOVING ON.
Here are a few of her words, and her same basic stance she has taken since BD:
"You know what is so sad, (husband). I have no want to come back to you. I haven't even missed you. I have missed (Daughter) terribly, and I miss having a nice home to entertain in. I am sorry that hurts you but I am not coming back."
