Go on a "date" with her. See if the 2 new individuals that have been created by this mess are compatible

Youll know the answers to your questions


Dont let her play the victim card now

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13